That is a fantastic post. You cover everything i experienced as a new user and many people just harass you when you are desperate to learn the game and know more.
But i want to communicate with you something far more complicated. The Corp System and Alliance system is broken. These are not the ways that players determine who is friendly and who isn’t and just making a corp does not put you on even footing with others. They use something of a color coded system to determine friendly targets. Because corps don’t like to be waged war against when doing pve content they hide their structures in shell corps. So the system is broken because you can’t attack the real owners as an attacker and your attackers can hide until they want to attack. CCP absolutely must fix this. Its an abuse. But as a new player you will be attacked by various people from a number of corps all in coordinated attacks. This is because standing color is used to organize multiple shell corps. Alliances mean nothing.
The fix is easy the standing system needs to be removed from corporations and no one can color another person (also red is a race color just fyi). Its used to discriminate against new users and insanely hard to get into this complicated network of interconnected corps. Then CCP need to make the Alliance system much more flexible and allow corps to enter multiple alliances formally that can be tracked by other players, so people know where they stand. They can still have a network of friendly players but without the system that excludes all new players.