Ok, I’m sorry. While some might call me a carebear (they’d be mostly right), HTFU dude. Hauling that much in a T1 hauler is idiotic. And yes, I’ve lost T1 haulers, i got smart and changed how I haul expensive stuff, no losses yet (knocks on the closest piece of wood, because i’ve probably just jinxed myself because i responded to this thread).
A loss is a loss, if you don’t want to lose your stuff don’t undock. undocking is consent to PvP, someone out there wants your stuff, don’t make it easy for them.
If you’re pissed about the loss, get in a capable combat ship and exact revenge while you still have kill rights.
Simple.
Edit: oh, and maybe you should re-read this forum post - 8 Golden Rules for EVE Online - New Citizens Q&A - EVE Online Forums lots of wisdom there.