2021 I lead a discussion on hate & harassment. I would rather have
been flying but it needed to be done. No community is going to thrive
where some members actually fear certain words, words used in civil
discussion, but are offensive because the strike a cord of denial. My only
goal was just to get people to talk.
Coincidentally the following I just wrote in my personal log. Writing is
great, I recommend keeping a personal a journal to help in
understanding yourself and your world, and the EVE community. You
donât have to share it with anybody, itâs just for you. The following I yield
up as an example.
HUMONS
The complicated nature of humons can be profound. The ego and
capacity for self deception is amazing. We are here because our
ancestors are the oneâs that survived. I almost said lived, is surviving the
same as thriving? Were they the smartest ones or the most paranoid
that made it? A little of both perhaps, itâs complicated.
REALLY
Fear, anger and hate are themselves survival mechanisms. They give
us a break from the poor choices we have made and the harsh side of
reality. Freedom is not really free, it is responsibility. Free will still comes
with consequences. By blaming others we avoid personal responsibility,
itâs their fault. Faith, hope and charity are work and who want that
really?
FRIENDS
Do you want friends who give you what you want or give you what you
need? How friendly are you to yourself?
A review of HATE & HARRASMENT already on the EVE forums may be
worth the effort. Keeping in mind, it you donât want to go out of pod then
donât. Remember how many phycologists it takes to change a light bulb;
only one, but the light bulb has got to want to change. I feel I did some
good for at least a few; and, I myself grew and learned a lot like deal with
the feelings, respect that, before charging in with the sword of reason.
fly safe,
Lionheart The Studio Poet