CCP has gone to a lot of effort to share with the community the challenges they face bringing new players into the game and retaining them, and they have repeatedly asked for our help in doing so.
I wonder if during any of those four ganks anyone offered to give him advice like yours or they just laughed about it on comms and trolled him in local. It’s not a good experience when that happens.
And these “role players” who pretend to be “Kings of the Highsec Miner Vermin” are definitely not helping. We should try to empathize with them. Look at his age, understand he is new, that he may not understand the mechanics, what he is doing wrong, that he may not find any enjoyment being talked down to for mining, and offer to help the guy before he ends up on the forums like this and gives up (and everyone continues to tell him why he’s so bad). The judgment is part of the problem.