You appear ignorant of how PvP games work in general (at least the non-shooter variety). Not surprising given that you think EVE PvP is the “real deal” - you don’t have much to compare it to.
You get combat vehicles by earning them through experience, paying for them with game currency (cash is also an option for the impatient). Then you pay more currency to equip and gear them. Pretty much just like EVE, except in other games you earn your experience through skilled play and in EVE you just pay cash and let the SP pile up.
If you do well, you get more currency and exp. If you do poorly, paying for vehicle repairs and ammo means you lose currency. You don’t lose the tank itself, but the games are all about stats and improving your gear so you do lose progress with poor play. People try to make a big deal about “OMG in EVE you risk everything!” but in fact you risk exactly what you risk in any other game - a few hours of game progress (unless you’re playing wrong. Don’t fly what you can’t afford to lose.).
As an example, in just over 30,000 battles I’ve accumulated 120 tanks. So roughly 300 battles per tank earned, at roughly 8 minutes all told per battle (queueing, wrap-up etc.). Or approximately 30 hours of solid play per tank. (Low levels are much faster than the highest levels).
Roughly the same ratio applies to similar games, whether battlemech, spaceships etc. They don’t “magically appear in hangars”. In fact I can replace ships in EVE much faster and with less effort than adding vehicles in those, actually PvP-centric games.
As for “you need to put in the work” in EVE, yeah, well, some people do find it hard. Other people find they can make billions per month without encountering any difficulty. I mean, yes, the interface is clumsy, the controls are 1980’s quality, ship combat is awkward, the mechanics are obscure and gameplay is generally very slow. So it may be difficult to play - it’s not particularly difficult to learn.
At any rate, do you notice how the thread is about “making more destruction happen”? And how you, Destiny, etc. have actually zero ideas about this? That the only thing you can do is say “you called PvP bad and I don’t like you. I don’t know what your ideas are but you need to leave EVE and go away.”
I mean, seriously? That’s all you have to contribute? It appears EVE PvP has some pretty serious side-effects on the creativity of people who like it.