I’ve been involved in running public fleets and new player fleets for um, lol, not sure, 7 or 8 years, wow… long time! Anyways, I’ve flown with several tens of thousands of pilots over the years and long ago lost track of how many fleets I’ve FC’d. I’ve literally spent years of my life to planning and organizing roams!
Trust me when I say I’ve seen more than my fair share of headshotting shenanigans, although it doesn’t happen as often as it used to to me (I also just don’t log on as much as I used to, either), it still happens.
Due to the open nature of public and new player roams, every now and then some putz or another thinks its funny to get into fleet and coms, and makes sure that each and every pilot who steps up to take over the fight gets headshot.
What makes it particularly loathsome when it happens is the fact WE BROUGHT THEM CONTENT, we flew sometimes 50, 75 or more jumps looking for fights, hunting for targets, and instead of just duking it out and having good time exploding each other, they disrespect the content providers.
Our entire philosophical approach to the fight is simple: If we can kill at least one ship, we’re going to take the fight more often than not, even if we know we’ll lost every ship in the process. Why? Because the fight is the entire reason we logged on, grabbed a ship, and undocked! We’re not out there pursuing strategic objectives, we’re not exploding structures, we could care less about moons. Our entire reason for being is roaming in pursuit of a fight - NOTHING gets our juices flowing like a good old fashioned furball of a brawl 
But when you headshot the FC and subsequent backup FCs, you not only deny us the good fight, you deny YOUR OWN fleet the good fight. There are some groups/alliances that do this so often, we simply don’t roam to their systems anymore; we don’t bring their line members fun and good fights, because a few putzes think head-shotting the FC is fun.
Then there are other groups that take extreme pleasure in saving the FC (usually me!) for last, and will even have their logi keep me alive so I can sit there tackled ten different ways, stewing, unable to escape as I yell to the remnants of my shattered fleet to get out while they can
then once they’re sure everyone’s got me locked, blow me up giggling up a storm! (
Brave!
)
Overall, most of the groups we fight regularly just bring the fight, and neither headshot the FC or save the FC for last; they just call the fight as they see best. They use tactics and doctrines and strategies to show not only their guys a good time, but our fleet a good time.
Guess what? We bring fights to these alliances pretty much every single weekend!
While it is true that infiltrating our public roams is pretty rare, when it does happen, everybody loses, regardless of what the killboard says.