There is more than the ring of truth to this position, Wadiest, if you substitute for ‘griefing’, ‘ganking’.
It was ganking itself which underwent change, in response to attempts by CCP to rein-in what was presented to it by some players as, basically, wholesale slaughter (which it has never been).
Each time a nerf to ganking was deployed, we pushed back in an effort to preserve the playstyle, whilst at the same time operating within the new parameters.
It was James 315 who organised the activity within Highsec at that time, drawing together previously disparate groups and solo players into a loose and broad-based coalition with shared objectives and interests.
He wrote a daily blog, Minerbumping, which drew and entertained many of his supporters (and not a few of the other sort…).
As far as Highsec is concerned, his achievement has been unparalleled. He started out as a lone capsuleer bumping miners in Arvasarus, in order to sell them Permits at 10 Mil a pop, and ended up fronting a huge organisation, known throughout New Eden. The nay-saying scallywags of our Official Opposition will struggle to achieve anything remotely as successful.
(He also gave me my first break as a Voice Actor - which eventually became a RL job - Ta’, James!)
So yes, emergent ganking gameplay has always been a response to a situation presented to the ganker, and quite beyond his control.
That so many of us have continued in spite of the nerfs and the hysterical, hyperbolic opposition sometimes seen on these boards is surely the best testament to our resolute and optimistic natures.
We are EVE.