Why can’t i create and share music?
That’s a play style available in many other mmos
What about grouping together for silly minigames?
Eve isn’t for all play styles. It facilitates and caters to a large variety sure. But at its core eve is a game about player conflict. That’s always been the goal. Every aspect of the game is, in one form or another pvp.
So yes it’s perfectly reasonable to tell someone who objects to the very foundation of a game, that they may want ti to find another one.