No one is asking you to ignore it. And optimism, at the right times, is a powerful tool.
And while you recognize the work of the Amarrians who are trying to improve the Empire, blanket statements like “peaceful and nice Amarr are an illusion” in your original post only hurt their cause.
You are a respected leader, Captain, which means that you of all people must be careful with your words. People—not just capsuleers, but Matari of all stripes—listen when you speak, and yet the hearing of those people is limited. They’ll take the gist of what you say and run with it. And “there are no peaceful and kind Amarr” is a much more consumable message than “…and I applaud their efforts, however small.”
You asked for facts?
One of the largest Amarr loyalist alliances has not deployed to the warzone. They have spent far more time fighting mutual threats such as the Triglavians and Blood Raiders, at a time when no Matari loyalist alliances were regularly defending against Triglavians and their participation against the Blood Raiders was mostly limited to one individual.
As reported by the Scope, the Ardishapur heir—hated for his predecessor’s destruction at Starkman—met with the Sarum heir to discuss the latter’s decision to call for the current Reclaiming in the warzone. Just before that, Ardishapur had taken a significant step toward equality for the Ammatar by raising the Mandate’s governor to the title of Holder (granted, a title that Matari should frown upon), the first time in history that that’s been done.
Meanwhile, most if not all of the evil that’s been perpetrated in the Empire of late can be traced back to one man. Minmatar and Amarr alike have fallen victim to his self-serving schemes. He wants to sow division and hatred, and you know what? When we glower at each other from within our safe places, we empower and encourage his despicable plots. That’s the sort of rhetoric we should be backing away from, not embracing.
For all the talk about swords these days, there’s never been a better time to unite against common threats—like the man who’s sent his fellows to attack Amarr and Matari alike, or the literal invading force that is attempting to take over human space by converting our star systems into space more like their own.