Here is a ganker who openly admits to loving the grief of other players:
And another that openly admits to actively griefing
To say they are all like that is as laughable as saying none are like that. Its just obviously and patently false, with the latter being just plain absurd.
To many this attitude is simply incomprehensible. But those people exist and they cannot be fixed, or at least not easily, with text messages. Don’t waste your time or emotions trying. Just talk to people who actually and only want to help you.