@Giddy_McFee
First, I pick where I want to go, usually based on the name.
My inaugural trip was to Curse, and I picked it specifically because of its name.
I set a system in that region/location as my destination, and let the game handle the initial route.
Then I examine who owns sovereignty in the area I plan on visiting, and along the route getting there. I evaluate how difficult crossing their territory may be, and adjust accordingly. (This can lead to really wild route planning, if you decide you don’t want to cross a particular territory.)
I check evetravel and see if there are any interesting sites in the area, and make further adjustments to my route.
Finally, I’ll select my ship. Remember I started doing this as a newbie, so my ship choices expanded as I progressed in experience.
If I feel like doing exploration sites, data and relic, I’ll take a helios (personal preference). If I’m just cruising around? An interceptor with a cloak. Want to mix some pvp in? Whatever ship that catches my fancy at the moment. But, all of them have to have a cloak of some sort; again, that’s personal preference.
And then, each day, while on my journey, I’ll check the ingame map for potential hotspots along my route; and then the common EVE news sources. Sometimes a big fight is being reported on, that I either wish to witness or avoid.
And, I know it’s common advice to avoid talking in local; but out in the “boonies” people sometimes get chatty, so a simple o/ in local may start you off on an adventure you never anticipated.
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