There are really quality FCs out there who don’t have their head up their ass. It’s a pleasure to work with them and one learns a huge amount. Completely avoiding group pvp because of a few bozos means you’re missing out.
The main thing is you only get out what you put in. It’s a much more satisfying experience when you’re doing the more involved roles like scouting, logi, bait, etc.
My experience is reversed, i am not able to get anything close to the amount of isk i make per session in a wh or low. A single relic site in a wh often has 30mil+ per site in my experience and a combat site anywhere between the 50 and 80mil per site