Your post now has nothing to do with what you initially said. Would you mind sticking to what you were saying, instead of coming up with something new that’s not actually connected?
Unfortunately this is correct. The only way to combat ganking is to become a ganker yourself, completely change your play style and give up the things you like to do in game. Personally, I would be interested in AG otherwise but I do not get any enjoyment out of that play style.
It makes all the differences, because all the things you claimed are not true at all, and using an alt makes it easy not to wreck your main character. No onw has to change anything, and no one has to give anything up. You are NOT your character.
If you have a goal, then you either have to work for it … or you don’t actually have a goal. If you were truly interested, then you wouldn’t care about it not being “how you like it”, but instead you would just “do” it.
Ganking, and “PvP” in general, are not play styles one can choose from. They’re things you can do. Even if you are stuck with one single thing you do in the game, which is completely fair, it does not mean that it is some sort of “individual playstyle”.
This is an idea that has been introduced by those who believe that there are “play styles” and that some people force “play styles” on the others. The “individualists”, who believe that everything is an opinion, also believe that “whatever i do defines me. It’s who I am.” and they do not see the mental prison this completely bonkers idea of “individuality” actually is.
There is no choice between “PvE” and “PvP”, you consent to PvP when you undock. There is PvE stuff to do, but that’s all there is to it. For the same reason can you not opt out of self protection simply by declaring that “PvP is not your play style”, because the rules and laws of the game are what ultimately matter. Read the New Player FAQ if you doubt me.
Cheers.