I don’t know a lot of peculiarities that happen between PIE and AM, and I won’t get on either side, I’ll just speak from my experience and my point of view of OOC/IC problems.
For me, everything that happens in game is IC, every conversation by default is IC - unless it was openly stated otherwise, bracketed or it was obvious RP discussion. Such OOC/IC blur happened to me once. One person, whom I won’t be naming here, and will refer to him as “T” was discussing with me a result of a RP scene. I am more of an improviser type, and he wanted a definite result, we were discussing how possible things could be achieved. My interest was in “gaining equal winning chance”, his - probably winning itself. One of my offers included possibility of convincing character “L” to lower gravity in the station in hope that will make chances of both character for victory more balanced. But that way of action was discarded soon after.
Character “T” had contact with character “A” - who was already known for its toxic behavior. And soon after the scene with “T” that went completely different way than was planned - and not as my fault - character “A” began openly blaming me in public IC channels in attempt of “cheating” in duel by convincing character “L” to turn off gravity…
I know for sure that characters “T”, “A” and “L” are played by different people, that IC claim was made on OOC conversation with a different person.
So, I totally can understand how FRUSTRATING it can be when someone blames you in something you believe you did OOC. But if you did it for real IC without warning it was OOC - I think it’s better to just admit it, after all - if it were just words, you can always turn them in any way, you can put any narrative to them as you want, for example - deceiving an enemy.
Another issue that I’d like to address OOC-ly, since I’ve started it… NEVER… never ever be toxic to anyone, would it be IC or OOC, unless they started being toxic to you first. We have already a lot of personalities who make roleplaying scene very toxic with unneeded drama and baseless accusations. There are already enough of enemies for everyone to blap in space or yell at without making new ones.
And for those… who started being toxic to you. Please, just burn them down. Stomp them with all your might, and just do whatever you can to show them that what they do is bad, and that they won’t get away from it easily