This is so contrary to the reality of the game, and written in such a style, that I’m fairly confident that you’re not a new player at all, and just a fly-by-night troll, like the ones we get here every day.
But on the off-chance that you’re not, I’ll explain why:
No, we don’t want to stunt your progress. It’s in our best interests to let you fatten up as much as possible before we harvest you, instead of doing it when you’re a week old, and picking at the meager scraps of flesh hanging loose from your bones.
And you don’t know better what gives you fun as a new player, because you haven’t even seen 98% of the game yet. You have no idea what possibilities lie out there.
The only reason you’re not moving today is because you’re stuck in the mental trap I outlined above. I was in null-sec during my first week, and I did just fine. Your understanding of game content seems to be “I need to get everything I need in order to be able to do it perfectly,” and that’s a ridiculous notion. There’s nothing wrong with engaging in smaller, easier bits of content when you’re still new, while you wait for your skills and game knowledge to increase, and incrementally improving your capacity to do harder content. Also, many groups would straight up give you the stuff you need to take part in group ops, group content coincidentally being one of the best sources of income in the game.
And why would you “get blown up again and again again and again” in null-sec? It’s arguably much more safe than even high-sec, if you’re living in an established, space-owning alliance. You’ll probably spend weeks in some backwoods home system before seeing a single neutral pass through.
Then you’re not going to make it in “dangerous” space anyway, regardless of how many skill points you have. Do you think that enough training will make you pass some kind of imaginary threshold, and turn you into a veritable PvP god? It’s not going to happen. If you go to space where organized group play is the meta, you’ll be at a disadvantage regardless of what you can fly and use.
Here’s an anecdote for you: I once popped an Ishtar in Stain, and the pilot started absolutely raging at me, complaining that I didn’t play fair, killed his advanced ship even though he spent so much time training for it, and that no one should’ve been messing with him because he was an old player. I had to explain to the guy that he wasn’t in Duripant anymore, and that his terrible assumptions did nothing to prepare him for the reality of the game. He called me some names, and I never saw him online again after that (this was back in the days of the active watchlist).