Calm down. It’s a game. OP also seems capable and isn’t completely disabled or mentally retarded, while you’re blaming the Internet for being what it is.
When somebody actually gets hurt by what happens in EVE then you’d have to blame those who allowed the access in the first place and not the people in it. See also the EULA regarding content and responsibilities.
We then don’t carve out an area in an ice arena so people in wheelchairs can get onto the ice, too. They’re usually fine with just watching. OP also made a suggestion to change wardec mechanics here. It’s safe to say that most of us know how this is going to end (see tragedy).