So, basically, Commander, I don’t think much of anyone (excepting maybe Ms. Kim) thinks of the Federation as the bad guys.
But, I don’t think all of us see democracy as a good thing. To you, democracy and personal agency seem to be clear and unquestionable positives. To a lot of us (like, pretty much the whole rest of New Eden) they look a lot like chaos, mob rule, and/or the tyranny of a majority with which our own cultures have little in common.
I don’t hate your Federation. I’ve visited it, spent weeks there, upwards of a month. Even if I still have questions about its intentions and long-term stability, it doesn’t seem like a horrible place to me. People seemed happy there, mostly. More than most places.
But I don’t have any place there. I’m not someone it can accept. I’m not someone it should.
It’s a strange thing, to be in line for coffee and realizing that, to everybody around you, you’re a villain. And that, by their own terms, they’re not even wrong. To them, I was something horrible: a mass-murderer who killed innocent and/or heroic people for no better reason than to sharpen my skill at killing.
Surrounded by “free” and happy people, I sank into such a depression I could barely leave my hotel room. I started having dreams where I was using my own blood as high-grade black calligraphy ink. It played a major part in parting me from PY-RE and returning me to SFRIM, and to the directrix’s side.
Your Federation’s not evil or anything. It’s just not for everyone, even if it thinks it should be. It’s been slow to recognize that not everyone wants to be thought of as an individual first. Even if it’s our governments and cultures teaching us such things, so what? They’re still key to our identities. They’re important to us.
Often, more important than our selves.
If you find yourselves being treated as the villains more often than you’d like … maybe consider that the things you want to free the rest of us from, the things you see as shackles, are things a lot of us really care about.
Maybe that makes us awful people, or pitiful fools, in your eyes. But that judgment that you seem to think is so obvious is precisely what we reject to begin with. You don’t get to judge us by your standards without being subject to judgment yourselves, under ours. You may not like some of the standards being used for that, but they make sense to us.
If we were powerless, if you had us at your mercy, it might be different. But it’s not. We’re in a position to judge, and to give our judgments teeth.
If that seems upside down and inside out to you, well, that just means the world wasn’t made for your convenience, either.