https://www.adam4eve.eu/stats_structures.php
The facts contradict your claim.
They can if they want to. Nothing is stopping them.
There is nothing stopping someone from flying a Blinged Raven Navy issue.
You are allowed to fly whatever you want to. Place whatever structure you want to.
But EVE has never been a place where you are perfectly safe. Where you can do things in perfect safety, where there is no risk in putting down a structure, no consequence in flying a blingy ship.
That has never changed.
Again, facts are against your claim.
And Goonswarm are losing structures left and right in querious and delve. They follow the same rule as everyone else, and are subject to it as well.
You should only own a structure if you can defend it or dont care about losing it.
Thing is, if you go to a small, remote place in hisec, you probably wont be bothered.
But again, the facts are against you.
You can change the UI size, but sure. No one is saying that EVE is for everyone. No one is saying that everyone should and can enjoy EVE.
The problem here, is that there will always be someone with a bad experience and will quit eve because of what seemed like a slight to them.
Look at this guy. This was before the quantum core, before the abandoned structure phase. People ganged up on his structure and took it down. Wasnt even a lot of people, was only like 20 guys max. He had a terrible experience and blamed CCP.
Some people will play Call Of Duty multiplayer, get shot in the face every round, and ragequit. Some will play Starcraft 2, lose every match and ragequit. Not every video game is for everyone. And thats okay. Theres nothing wrong with that.
What is wrong, though, is taking your immediate experience and making generalizations based on your limited views. When youre in nullsec, all you see are citadels because there are almost no NPC structures. When youre in hisec, there are tons of stuff all around you, so you dont realize and recognize the number of citadels around you. And yet, the evidence, the facts, say that you are wrong.