You are correct, the system is bad. The crew youâre hearing from in this thread are the types that like to blow smoke and pretend that ganking new players is actually good for them and teaches them about the game and encourages them to stay longer.
Yes, you can focus learning on a few specific areas, and perhaps be somewhat effective in a lower-end ship within a few months, and go try to do some PvP or something. These people will try to sell you on the fact that âyou can be in a cheap ship with level 4 skills and T2 weapons in a few months, and be competitiveâ.
They ignore the fact that while youâre in that ship, the vet will be in an assault or faction ship with more skills, better weapons, more expensive ammo, more experience at fighting, more ships to swap into, more ISK so they can afford more losses, etc.
In EVE, new players are competing with vets in every arena as soon as they enter the game. In the market, in mining, in PvP, in exploration, everything. And the vets like it that way and want to keep it that way. Thereâs no sugarcoating this, itâs bad game design, it drives away virtually all potential new players, and they canât really admit it because making that the common public reply will just result in even fewer new players.
That said, new players can and have started EVE every day of itâs existence, and itâs always been an uphill battle against the odds. You donât survive that battle by taking expensive, easy targets into low sec to earn a little more ISK than in high.
You get over the initial âeveryone is better than me at everythingâ barriers by playing smart and choosing your approach carefully. You read up on the traps and decide what youâre going to use as your learning experience. You expect that youâre going to lose your ships often, and you learn the game in cheap ships that more than pay for themselves with the results of what you do.
Missioning, mining and exploration are all more profitable (when done carefully) than what youâre going to lose. WH diving, faction warfare, the same. As others have said, if you canât make it over those barriers on your own, then find a group or corp to work with.
And lastly, if you look at all those challenges and say ânope, itâs not for meâ, donât worry about it. It just means you agree with something like 96% of all new players who try EVE and give up on it.